I have been married
for seven years. The first five years were wonderful. Then I started hanging
out with an ungodly crowd, and I ashamed to say I cheated on my husband. I
didn't sleep with any men, but I did fool around with several. I confessed this
to my husband and he forgave me.
Then I met a Christian man who was very much
like me, I fell in love with him, and we did have sex twice. He's married also.
We realize what we have done is wrong and have both asked God to forgive us;
however, we haven't told our spouses -- should we? I'm afraid if I tell my
husband he won't forgive me this time.
Also I'm afraid if I do tell him he'll
figure out who the man I cheated with is, thereby possibly destroying his
marriage. There are two innocent spouses here who would be terribly hurt if we
confessed to them. I feel it is better to ask God's forgiveness and repent, but
I also feel terribly guilty keeping this secret. What do you think I should do?
Please help me out… your comment and advice will be highly appreciated.
You dont need to tell him because he might change his attitude towards you but you also need to change ur ways.
ReplyDeleteI think the truth shall set u free. You just have to pray really hard bou this first. Seek counsel from your pastor. In your heart of hearts u kno the best thing to do. T depends on wat yo priority is: F u want to live on a clean conscience then tel your husband. You might lose your marriage but u would have done the right thing, yo husband might forgive u but its not guaranteed. Or keep this secret to the grave and always have a guilty conscience...the choice is yours
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